Monday, January 9, 2017

The Law of Reciprocation

by Lynette Robinson
Found Money

One day, several years ago,we were driving in town.  I was watching out the window and we were traveling about 10 or so miles per hour when suddenly I said to my husband, “make a right turn here! Turn right! Turn right!” He was puzzled but complied.

I then directed him to drive to the parking lot closest to the intersection we had just gone through.  I jumped out, ran to the curb and in the gutter I picked up a $20 dollar bill.  “Wow!” He said.  Since there was no way to track down the owner, I had a free $20 to do with anything I liked.  It was awesome!  However, I needed to find a way to pay that forward or pass it on in order for the universe to continue to bless me in an invigorating and high vibrational way.

We all love free stuff

We all love to get something for free.  

It’s like the universe giving us a hug but, what about when we go through life thinking that's the way it works and always trying to get something for nothing?  It seems that there are those people who are always looking for a handout and still they tend to complain that they have no money and therefore should be taken care of by those who have more.

In my practice, I try to listen to the Spirit as to when I should donate my time or give a discount.  I have no problem with charity but can’t possibly begin to base my business on it.  I have invested tens of thousands of dollars into my education.  My creditors, water bill, electricity, landlord and mentors don’t have the same mindset and every month those bills come due.  I've got sufficient for my needs and am very blessed but my husband is retired and we have slowed down considerably.
Investment

Recently, there was an offering for a financial freedom class at our church.  The class was free but the cost for the materials was $93.  My friend quipped that it seemed an oxymoron that someone was supposed to learn how to save money by spending $93.  Giving everything for free violates the law or reciprocity.

I found three different perspectives on this law.

1- “The law of reciprocity, (which applies in EVERY culture on the face of the earth), simply explains that that when someone gives you something you feel an obligation to give back. Giving and receiving favors is a common exchange and is an implicit assumption in most of our relationships.”

2- “The Law Of Reciprocity is the Universal Law that states that whatever is sent out into the cosmos, what modern day science refers to as "The Unified Field", and what I personally choose to refer to as "The Infinite Field Of Potentiality", (I call if God’s gift) “in the way of energy or vibration through the resonance of your thoughts, emotions and actions, will manifest outcomes in the physical world... physical outcomes that unfold in your life based on whatever is given or broadcast out through those thoughts, emotions and actions.

3- “The following gives powerful examples of reciprocity: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap”.

Law of Gravity
“I don’t believe that!” you might say.  It’s like the law of gravity.  You might not believe it but you are still subject to that law.  And so are you and I all subject to the law of reciprocity.   We cannot possibly benefit from what is given unless we find a way to continue that flow of energy.  If someone gifts something to us, whether it’s time or other tangible goods, we must find a way to either pay them back or pay it on. 

There are many, many people in this world who live from day to day on the fruits of the labors of another.  Those fruits often just show up in the mailbox, checking account or benefit card without them ever seeing the source from which they come.  "When you get something for nothing, someone else gives something and gets nothing."  was a favorite saying of a friend's dad in teaching his children.  

They may or may not be able to earn their own keep and that really makes no difference in the case of this law.   As my grandmother aged and became unable to take care of herself she was put into a nursing home and it was heartbreaking to see her downward spiral of health and spirit and before long, she passed away. She was no longer paying her way and she knew it.  Her entire life had been spent in the loving service of those around her and we served her and loved doing it.  

Investing in Education
If you could look inside of any college or university, it would become pretty clear which students were there on their own dime and which ones were there at the expense of the government or other benefactor.  I’m not saying that every single student who applies himself is paying his own way and every player is on a free ride, but the odds are that the ones who are buckling down, know the value of an education and is willing to invest the time and effort into becoming more self-sufficient while being grateful for the opportunity. 

If a young couple, having money problems, had to come up with $93 to invest or sow in an opportunity to learn to better manage their resources, they would be more likely to apply the principles taught in the class and would reap a greater reward in the long run. 

If your medical bills were all paid for by someone else you might go to the doctor but ignore his advice because there is no value exchanged, no investment made on your part.  In vintage times a doctor might receive chickens in exchange for an office call or livestock in exchange for delivering a baby.  Women bartered butter for eggs and men bartered labor for lumber.  It was moral and right to pay people when they give goods or services.

Is it time to take down the Bird Feeder?

This article was posted in reference to illegal immigration but it seems applicable here.

“I bought a bird feeder.  I hung it on my back porch and filled it with seed.  What a beauty of a bird feeder it was, I reflected as I filled it lovingly with seed. First came the chickadees and then within a week we had hundreds of birds taking advantage of the continuous flow of free and easily accessible food.

But then the birds started building nests in the boards of the patio, above the table, and next to the barbecue.

Then came the poop.  It was everywhere: on the patio tile, the chairs, the table. Everywhere!

Birds fight over free food
Then some of the birds turned mean.  They would dive bomb me and try to peck me even though I had fed them out of my own pocket.

Other birds were boisterous and loud.  They sat on the feeder and squawked and screamed at all hours of the day and demanded that I fill it when it got low on food.

After a while, I couldn't even sit on my own back porch anymore.  So I took down the bird feeder and in three days the birds were gone.  I cleaned up their mess and took down the many nests they had built all over the patio.

Soon, the back yard was like it used to be: quiet and serene.
Now let's see.  Our government gives out free food, subsidized housing, free medical care, free education and allows anyone born here to be an automatic citizen.


Then the illegals came by the tens of thousands.  Suddenly, our taxes went up to pay for free services; small apartments are housing 5 families; and you have to wait 6 hours to be seen by an emergency room doctor.  Your child's 2nd grade class is behind other schools because over half the class doesn't speak English.

Corn flakes now come in a bilingual box; I have to 'press one' to hear my bank talk to me in English, and people waving flags other than 'Old Glory' are squawking and screaming in the streets, demanding more rights and free liberties.

Just my opinion, but maybe it's time for the government to take down the bird feeder.”

This isn’t just an immigration problem.  We complain that immigrants, coming here for all the freebies is draining the economy but what about the millions of Americans who have been conditioned to believe that they deserve to be taken care of because they can’t (or won’t) take care of themselves.  I agree that in many instances, the situation has degraded to the point where they have passed the point of being able to care for themselves.

We have created and nurtured a “poor me” mentality. 

Have we lost sight of the law of reciprocity?  It is no longer considered a problem for entire families to be on the dole, of the government, which is actually the American worker, for years and even generations.  I’ve read accounts when relief was interrupted due to disaster or extraordinary circumstances; there was rioting and loud demands that the people were not being taken care of.  They slammed the government agencies for not responding sooner.  

Constitution
There is nothing in our US Constitution that lays the responsibility to support its citizens, on the Federal Government.  We, locally, should be taking care or each other during hard times and laboring diligently in all others.  Everybody can do something to contribute.  Children can learn to serve and the elderly can serve the community in so many ways.


Do people fall on hard times?  

Absolutely!  Should we do everything we can to rescue our fellow man and even the stranger?  Indeed!  However, if should happen close to home so that the receiver can see the hand of the giver and know where their meal comes from.  When the needy make no effort to mitigate their circumstances, when they demand and expect to graze from place to place in a pasture they don’t own, even at the expense of the farmer's own cattle, when they teach their children and grandchildren that it’s someone else’s responsibility to provide for them, when they squander the money they have on frivolous and unnecessary luxuries and clutter and then wait for the necessities of life to be delivered, there comes a time when the bird feeder will be taken down because those who once worked to feed the birds have retired or moved away and nobody is left to buy the bird seed.


But I digress.  

Movement and Energy
In a world governed by laws, it is important to find ways to keep the flow of reciprocating energy flowing through and around everyone so those in need are lifted and encouraged and so nobody feels taken advantage of, gets discouraged and simply quits.When we receive, we need to try to immediately return or pass on the energy in kind, in service, or in any way we can possibly think of.  This is something every one of us is capable of.  Let's all pitch in!  




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